Having a good relation with your boss is essential to make the work life smoother and to have faster career growth. A good relation can be established when we connect emotionally with our boss. How can we emotionally connect with our boss?
To crack the puzzle , we should understand how emotions get generated in us. We have both Conscious and Subconscious mind. Emotions get generated in Subconscious mind. Subconscious mind gets enriched with the information based on our past experience.
Lets see how subconscious mind works. In computer terminology , Subconscious mind is like hard disk in which the information gets stored permanently. Conscious mind is like RAM in which the information gets processed to make decisions.
The subconscious mind is responsible for the automatically triggered feelings and emotions that we suddenly experience upon facing a new situation. If we were about to give a presentation then all the fear and anxiety feelings we might experience are in fact launched and controlled by our subconscious mind.
The conscious mind is, on the other hand, responsible for logic, calculations and all actions that are performed while you are conscious. The subconscious mind also controls other functions in your body like breathing and heart beats.
So to get connect emotionally with our boss , we need to figure out whats there in the subconscious mind of the boss. For that we need to know the background of the boss which includes his origin , education , past experience , expertise , believes , personality, family background , professional goals , personal goals etc.
We can get connected to any person when we identify at least one common factor that got established in his subconscious mind and indulge in conversation with him repeatedly at regular intervals.
For instance, suppose your boss is a basket ball player and you you have also represented your school in basket ball leagues.You can get emotionally connected to your boss by engaging him in the conversations related to basket ball.
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